I have a lot of mixed feelings about Jameela Jamil. As a fellow South Asian woman, we actually have a lot in common. There’s something about growing up dark-skinned and being regularly recommended skin bleachers/ told to get out of the sun or you’ll be too dark to marry / etc that makes you immediately drawn to anyone that is unapologetically brown.
But, she also has a habit of stealing other marginalised group’s limelight.
Had an overwhelmingly lovely and emotional response to today’s Stylist issue. But a small amount of people have mistaken my message to be about BoPo. It isn’t. It’s just about eating disorder culture. I’ve been careful to take measures to extract myself from BoPo, as I’m slim. X pic.twitter.com/qYUMjkieDj
— Jameela Jamil 🌈 (@jameelajamil) August 28, 2019
But Jameela is a flawed ally, not an enemy. And I think that’s my key angle when it comes to thinking about her.
Jameela Jamil’s Got Lived Experience In Her Activism And We Shouldn’t Forget It
Jameela Jamil has lived experience. I do think her being skinny and famous now matters, sure, and people mistrusting her because of that have a right to – but I also think you can’t dismiss the fact that her body dysphoria nearly killed her, at the same time she was in an accident and suffered from disabilities.
Jameela Jamil is a survivor of eating disorders and body dysphoria. In some ways, she’s a success story in the fact that she’s alive at all.
Contains very strong language about the detox/diet industry, and why I get so angry with the people paid to promote this crap. pic.twitter.com/dNzbWl49oe
— Jameela Jamil 🌈 (@jameelajamil) January 10, 2020
I reckon Jameela genuinely tries to fight the good fight – but I also think her passion for that can lead her to silence others in the process.
This is a criticism she receives a lot, TBH. From accusations of silencing fat Black body acceptance activists, to stealing the spotlight from queer artists, Jameela seems to find herself in places she doesn’t want to be.
And that’s part of why it’s so hard to make up my mind about her – she’s created real waves with her activism, but I can’t ignore the criticisms.
Jameela Jamil Should Not Have A Role On ‘Legendary’, But That Doesn’t Mean She’s A Bad Activist
Of course, the biggest controversy around Jameela Jamil at the moment is her new role in the HBO show ‘Legendary.’
I’m a judge, alongside @leiomy @theestallion and @LUXURYLAW with music from icon @TheOnlyMikeQ I know some of us aren’t from ballroom, but we are here to bring our followings, press and new audiences to the show, to support and celebrate the ballroom community. That is all. ❤️ pic.twitter.com/1H1J5hXi3K
— Jameela Jamil 🌈 (@jameelajamil) February 5, 2020
The idea that a cis-straight woman could host a voguing/ballroom show – a genre that was created and championed by Black trans creatives, is pretty fucking shitty. Except turns out she’s not straight, she’s queer.
Now, I’m not LGBT. I don’t have a right to speak about how acceptable her role on this show is. The queer experts on ballroom and vogue, however, do. And they reckon she doesn’t have a right to that role over others.
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— Jameela Jamil 🌈 (@jameelajamil) February 5, 2020
I don’t think anyone is denying that Jameela has a right to be a part of queer culture – she certainly does, as a queer person.
Lol.. I interviewed for this gig. As the mother of a house for nearly a decade it’s kind of kind blowing when ppl with no connection to our culture gets the gig. This is not shade towards Jameela, I love all that she stands for. If anything I question the decision makers https://t.co/kJleDihn02
— Trace Lysette (@tracelysette) February 4, 2020
It’s true however that she has benefited off being a cis-gendered straight-passing woman her whole life, even if she is actually queer. And the plain fact is that other queer people, who have years of experience and history with voguing and ballroom, were passed up for the role despite the fact that they have far more to contribute to it.
Ballroom’s about earning your stripes and paying your dues. Would you invite Jameela to judge a Royal Ballet Academy exam? No, probably not 😂
— Meep (@autowiredpick) February 6, 2020
These criticisms from the queer community, fans, and haters are necessary. They’re true. But I guess I’m just hesitating to jump on the cancel bandwagon because I know that really, Jameela Jamil is misguided at best and selfish at worst – she’s wrong in some cases, but certainly not out to fuck with minorities.
I see why it’s so hard to make up my mind about her, but I think ultimately she does far more good than harm. And TBH, I rather a flawed ally than no ally.
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