Exploring the world of sex is both exciting and nerve-wracking. Whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned professional, there’s a whole lot of ways to introduce a little more kink into your sex life. If you’re looking for a way to rekindle the relationship or just to have a little more fun, these five ways are sure to keep your partner coming back for more.
#1 Don’t Be Scared To Talk Dirty
Dirty talk is that little extra factor that can make a huge difference to your sex life. It can feel scary, awkward and embarrassing, but practice always makes perfect. If you’re not sure what to say, ask your partner, they’ll know what they want to hear. It’s always a good idea to chat about it beforehand or early on, and discuss words you both like or dislike, and your limits.
#2 Sex Toys…Duh
When you and your partner are ready, investing in a few good sex toys is a total boost to the kink in your sex life. With a huge variety from vibrators to ropes, you can choose for yourselves what you want. It’s always fun to experiment with several types and make decisions on what you enjoyed and didn’t. It can be an awkward one, so don’t feel pressured to use them – but they can liven things up a whooolleee lot.
#3 Longer Foreplay
Not only is foreplay important for the body to get into the mood, it can also make sex more enjoyable and a lil’ kinkier. We know how much you just want to dive straight into it, but taking an extra 10-20 minutes to make sure both of you are turned on will make the entire experience more comfortable, and more fun. Nothing is sexier than seeing your partner super turned on and wanting more.
Dress-ups and sex, win-win. If you and your partner are really keen to get adventurous, roleplay will put you on the right path. Doctor and Nurse, Teacher and Student, Executive and Secretary are just a few roleplay classics that are certain to get you both thrilled for sex. The best part is that there are no limits to what you both want to try and how kinky you can be, so get creative.
#5 Food Is Not Only For The Kitchen
You might want to have a couple towels around, this one can get messy. If you’re willing to take it a step further and really up the kink meter, you’re gonna need to take a quick trip to your local supermarket. Now probably don’t go too wild here kids, stay away from salty and spicy, think more sweet and light. Whipped cream, melted chocolate and honey are some super fun and yum ways to introduce food play into your sex life. If you’re not too game for food yet, flavoured lubes are a great way to make that first step towards food play, without making a sticky mess.
Sex is as fun as you want it to be. If you’re looking for a little more kink in your life, there’s a thousand different options. Choose what you’re into and make sure you discuss it with your partner first, to make sure you’re both into in.
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